Finding inexpensive gifts for Valentine's Day
You could "say it with flowers."
Or, you could say it with cheesy potatoes.
Either way, you're going to make someone happy on Valentine's Day.
This year, many of us are wondering how we can extend the same amount of love for a significantly lower cost.
Sure, sure, "it's the thought that counts." But the phrase, ironically, too often accompanies a gift bought at a convenience store at the last moment.
No, we're talking about a gift that tells your significant other that you care deeply.
Here, then, are some gifts that will touch hearts for less than $10.
Say it with flowers
Fairview Florist, 1634 East Racine St., holds Five-buck Fridays on a regular basis. Valentine's Day is Saturday, and you could scoop up your deal on Friday, present them to the gal or guy of your dreams with tender words such as "I couldn't wait to tell you how much I care for you, XXXOOO Pookie."
You'll need to get there early.
The bouquets are not a deliverable item and quantities are limited, said Tom Carlson, owner of Fairview.
Say it with flowers, part two
What would you pay for dozens and dozens of flowers? As much as $2.50. As little as $1.19? Head for K & W Greenery or your favorite nursery for seed packets.
Tape those packets to pencils, surround the packets with tissue paper and stick in a vase. Et voilà! Floral bouquet.
Promise to help plant those seeds when the weather warms up.
Here's a tip: Zinnias, sunflowers, bachelor's buttons, love-in-a-mist and cosmos are easiest to grow.
A gift with meaning
Now honestly, do any of us really want a helium balloon that says "I Wuv U"?
Or a stuffed bear with sporting a T-shirt that says "U R Mine?"
No, because we are grown-up women, secure in our relationships. What we want is something that, No. 1, is spelled correctly and, No. 2, means something.
How about a donation made in your loved one's honor to the YWCA in Janesville? Here's a short list of the Y's programs: Domestic violence shelter, transitional housing, a "Care House" for children who have been physically or sexually abused and support for elderly people suffering from abuse.
"For women and girls, a donation is a great gift," said Allison Hokinson, community relations director. "The buzz word these days is "pay it forward," and what a great way to do that."
With your donation, your special someone will receive an acknowledgement card from the YWCA.
For more information, call the YWCA at (608) 752-5445
A gift with meaning, part two
Sue McCrone, client advocate at ECHO, the church-sponsored social services agency, prepared this Valentine's rhyme:
Echo valentines are here,
Full of love for those so dear,
They also help those in need right here,
And are guaranteed to spread some cheer.
OK, Sue's not much of a poet, but it's the thought that counts.
ECHO's Valentine's postcards come in package of 10 and are $10. The cover features a pink floral design and the words "Life is an echo: What you send out, you get back."
The cards are available at the ECHO office, 65 S. High St., Janesville.
Say it with cheesy potatoes
Some people, and we won't mention names, are happiest when they get to eat cheesy potatoes and ring bologna with ketchup in front of the television.
Some other people, who might or might not live in the same household, would like to sit down to a civilized meal with a salad course and conversation.
So why not give your spouse something he really wants—such as a coupon promising to make and serve grilled cheese sandwiches and tomato soup in the middle of the Packers game of his choice? Or a coupon for a ketchup-free meal served on an actual table, not on a paunch?
How about a coupon pledging not to offer any more "tips" on the golf course? Or pledging not to roll your eyes when your allegedly better half makes a questionable sweep call during league curling?
In all cases, you're giving the other person a gift he or she will truly appreciate.
Those kinds of Valentine's gifts last all year long and promote happier relationships.
And isn't that what it's all about?


Feb 9, 2009 at 10:06 p.m.
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People should know that you also never have to pay retail or "sticker price" for Valentine's Day flowers - this blog post has a ton of coupons and deals:
http://www.dealio.com/blog/2009/01/valen...
Enjoy,
Helen
Feb 9, 2009 at 3:46 p.m.
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We'll also be cooking at home. He grills and I bake the goodies that go with it!
Feb 9, 2009 at 3:33 p.m.
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I have asked my husband to pick out his favorite pictures from our wedding photo album, enlarge them, and put them in a frame. What a way to spend a romantic day, by re-living one of the most romantic days of our lives!
Feb 9, 2009 at 1:05 p.m.
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I am a massage therapist if anyone wants one!! :) That's what I am giving my boyfriend for V-day... and for me it's FREE :) works out nicely and he loves it. ;)
Feb 9, 2009 at 11:44 a.m.
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At Rock Assembly of God on Hermatige they are having a free showing of "Fireproof" for the adults and you can bring your kids as well. they will be showing " the pirates who don't do anything" movie for the kids! It's free. they will be having a chili potluck before the movie, bring some chili and whatever, the meal starts at 12:30 and the movie about 1-1:30. Whenever we finish eating!
Feb 9, 2009 at 11:37 a.m.
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There will be a Spaghetti Dinner and movie at New Horizon United Methodist Church (1726 S. Murphy Rd.) off Hwy 11 between Footville and Orfordville Valentines Day from 5-7 pm. Movie will be after dinner. Child care and meal is at no additional cost however free will donations will be accepted. Cost is $7 per person for older children and adults and includes both the meal and movie.
This is a fundraiser for the New Horizon United Methodist Church and Asbury United Methodist Church (Janesville) to raise money to help with the cost of the mission trip to inner-city Cleveland in August.
Tickets are available at either church. Or at the door.
Feb 9, 2009 at 11:24 a.m.
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sorry i have to agree with be_happy i too lost a family member on valentines day this year it will be a year since we lost my grandfather i am going out but not to celebrate but to remember my grandfather!!!
Feb 9, 2009 at 10:47 a.m.
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A agree with army and happy. I equate this to my kids asking me what I want for my birthday or Father's day. I always say record a song for me from the piano or draw me a picture or write me a note. They think those are dumb ideas but that is really what I want. Material things are fine for some people but for me I would appreciate simple things from the heart.
Feb 9, 2009 at 10:41 a.m.
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I suggest gifts.com. It allows you to search for a gift according to the general personality type of your partner. I used it to buy my wife's christmas gift, which was perfect. I also used it to buy her a valentine's gift: a sturdy pillow used to read in bed with moveable head rest and all the trimmings. I think that kind of gift is better than flowers. Guys should be buying flowers once a month anyway.
Feb 9, 2009 at 10:17 a.m.
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armyof3,I like your idea and we have done that a few times.I really dont like valentines day anymore,though.A family member died on that day some yrs ago so It makes me sad.Also,all the hype about it is weird,like you can only show your love on one day.Sweetest day is my favorite! Most people I know dont even know it exists and it is a surprise ever year!! Stay home,order out,cuddle up....thats my idea of a good time!
Feb 9, 2009 at 9:53 a.m.
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I like the ECHO valentine card idea, but they should $10 each, not for ten. Just my opinion.
Feb 9, 2009 at 9:35 a.m.
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instead of gifts, why not a more simplistic romantic gesture... i.e. take the time and cook a special meal for your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend, light a few candles, dim the lights, and listen to some soft, romantic music...
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