Janesville student wins Newtown essay contest
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The first annual Charlotte Bacon Act of Kindness award ceremony took place Friday at HealingNewtown Art Space, a gallery created to house the letters and art that poured into the city after the shooting in December.
Charlotte would have been 7 years old Friday.
Learn more about Charlotte and the project at newtownkindness.org.
Learn about HealingNewtown Art Space at healingnewtown.org.
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Ariana Pensy
JANESVILLE Ariana Pensy carried a little pink bucket with her from Janesville to Newtown, Conn. Full of kind words from Janesville third-graders, the bucket was meant to help fill the hearts of sad families in the small Connecticut town.
Ariana left the bucket and brought back to Janesville a full heart. Her mom and teachers hope she will inspire other children and adults in the community.
Ariana, 9, is a student in Lee Gruber’s third-grade class at Harrison Elementary School. She was one of eight children from across the nation honored this week in the first-annual Charlotte Bacon Act of Kindness Award ceremony.
Charlotte was one of the 26 people killed in December at the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting in Newtown. The ceremony was held Friday on what would have been Charlotte’s seventh birthday.
The contest invited children to write, draw or tell stories about acts of kindness they did for others. Ariana’s essay and picture were inspired by a children’s book Gruber read in class called “Have You Filled A Bucket Today,” by Carol McCloud. The book encourages children to create their own happiness by doing kind things for others.
The message stuck with Ariana, her mother, Lara Bush-Pensy of Janesville said.
In her essay, Ariana wrote about befriending a child with whom other children didn’t want to play.
Reaching out to someone made Ariana feel good, she wrote.
“When you help someone, you don’t just fill their bucket,” Ariana wrote. “You fill yours, too.”
Ariana decorated a pink bucket—Charlotte’s favorite color—and asked her classmates to write kind things on paper hearts. She took the bucket to Newtown and presented it Friday to the community during the awards ceremony, Bush-Pensy said.
It was a sweet moment among many during the emotional ceremony at HealingNewtown Art Space, a gallery created to display the letters and artwork that poured into the city from around the world after the shooting.
Before, during and after the ceremony, Bush-Pensy was amazed by the reaction of people to Ariana’s simple essay. People have printed it out and hung it in their offices, she said. They’ve passed it around to their friends.
The sweet story makes people want to be kind to others, Bush-Pensy said.
“It fills them up,” she said. “It really seems to motivate people.”
The kindness already is coming back to Ariana. Houston Texans defensive lineman J.J. Watt, a Wisconsin native and former UW-Madison football player, heard about Ariana’s essay and is taking the family out to dinner this week, Bush-Pensy said.
Additionally, the family made what she thinks will be lifelong friends during their trip to Newtown, she said.
“They’re just incredible people,” Bush-Pensy said. “When you think about what they’ve been through, it would move you beyond belief to meet them.
“Love absolutely lives in Newtown.”


Mar 23, 2013 at 7:54 p.m.
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Good job Ariana! Let's continue to fill buckets in our Janesville schools and community.
Mar 3, 2013 at 9:14 p.m.
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As heartwarming and wonderful as I truly believe this story is and as proud as I am to know that kindness is still running through our schools, I'd ask everyone to please remember...there is another child who continues to be reminded that her newfound friendship is at the center of this project. She becomes more objectified as the media continues to highlight this good deed. If she truly is "different" as she was described and has a hard time with friendships...how do you believe she must be feeling now? I'm sure she's aware of the fact that she's the one that was written about and now talked about on the news, and in the newspaper. As I said, in no way am I remotely trying to downplay a wonderful act of kindness...but take a minute and remember there is a real child with real feelings that may not be taking this extra attention so well.
Feb 28, 2013 at 1:04 p.m.
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My daughter and Ariana are the very best of friends, and Lara and I try to get the girls together as often as possible. I always knew there was something special about Ariana in that she would make a difference somewhere in this life. Her mom too! Lara is the most self-less, kind-hearted mother who devotes everything in her to give her child every available experience she can. I just cannot say enough about the two of them. They are truly great people that are deserving of so much more than even the robust news coverage this great experience has brought them!
Congratulations Lara for raising such an amazing young lady. She is truly a gift from God. And GREAT WORK Ariana! Keep shining your light onto all of us around you. You really are moving mountains young lady! I couldn't be more proud! :)
Feb 26, 2013 at 8:50 p.m.
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Wonderful story! You have a beautiful heart and that will take you far in your life!
Feb 26, 2013 at 8:19 p.m.
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This is an awesome story!
When a child does something like this, It brings out the best in love and kindness!
So moving! Way to go Ariana!
Feb 26, 2013 at 3:41 p.m.
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Excellent job!
Feb 26, 2013 at 3:57 a.m.
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it's uplifting to see good ideas "brought out of mothballs", dusted off, and put back to good use. Back in the early 1980s Milton teachers began one of their new school years with the same message, shared by a motivational speaker. Acquaintances of mine still use that expression.
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Hopefully there will be ripple effect from this sweetheart's project, with grownups becoming more mindful that we all can be "just a little bit nicer" to one another, day by day.
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Feb 25, 2013 at 6:58 p.m.
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Nice !
Feb 25, 2013 at 5:04 p.m.
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This story gave me goosebumps. What an inspiring story. If at 9 she is doing something so remarkable her future is sure to be bright and filled with a loving and giving heart. Her bucket is certainly overflowing.
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