Not as young as we used to be
I spent this past gorgeous Sunday afternoon doing what all good nerds do: huddled around a table, rolling dice, doing math and using my imagination.
I played Dungeouns and Dragons on Sunday with a new group of friends. It was delightful.
The game is designed for teenagers, although I learned to play when I was in my late twenties. I rarely get to play anymore, because it's hard to find adults who are willing to give up their valuable time to play fantasy role-playing games.
D & D is sort of like acting out a choose-your-own-adventure novel. Every player makes up a character. The person in charge - called the Dungeon Master - starts telling a story, and each player describes what his or her character would do in the story.
You roll dice to "keep it real." Dice rolls determine your character's success each time he or she tries to do something.
I'm playing a ranger named Zona. She likes nature and is adept at surviving outdoors. She has a pet snake and magic armor.
True story.
It was a relief to spend a couple of hours in a world where there's no such thing as a plant closing or emergency mental health detentions. It's a great escape from reality. I need that sometimes.
The host and I did make a funny observation about playing D & D as adults. When you're a kid, you just grab your character sheet and some Cheetos and go to a friend's to play.
We, on the other hand, spent hours cleaning his house the night before the game. I spent all night making bean dip and pot roast. He spent a long time deciding where everyone should sit around the playing table so they would be most comfortable.
It was like we were geeking out on being geeky.

Oct 15, 2008 at 3:01 a.m.
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Never have played D&D, but was a big chess player at one time. Pretty amazing how it can really take over your life so to speak. I remember playing some weekend tournaments, and when I came home Monday, it was like I entered back into the "real world". Had literally no idea what had happened the past 3-4 days. The mental strain of these sort of games can often be overwhelming. I remember playing in a championship match, and loosing a 5 1/2hr slug fest, in a position that I had a totally winning end game, which I screwed up. I was distraught for days, if not weeks, after. I'm a pretty active person; do a lot of running, bicycling, ext, but that does not wear you down nearly like a mental game will. It really takes a lot out of you when you really get into it.
Oct 14, 2008 at 7:38 p.m.
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What the heck are you smokin polert? The Republicans must really be losing it when they see Dungeouns and Dragons as an Obama plot.
Oct 14, 2008 at 6:36 p.m.
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I spend hours trying to get my small business off the ground. But after what I seen from a meet/greet over the weekend with Obama In Ohio where a Plumber/owner operator ask Obama why Obama want to raise his taxes. Obama replied to spread the wealth. Which means take from the hard working, and give to those unwilling to work.
Oct 14, 2008 at 3:27 p.m.
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I say "naive" simply because if you believe that D&D fosters satanism you are simply misinformed. The books were cleaned up dramatically back in the 80s when the backlash was the strongest. D&D products are currently owned by Hasbro (through Wizards of the Coast) and I highly doubt they are fighting any lawsuits suggesting that people are falling victim to satanism because of using their products.
As with any indulgence, it can be taken too far--so if you are looking for negativity, you surely will find it if you look hard enough. I would argue that D&D is no more likely to cause delinquency in anyone that watching too much TV. In this case, I would doubt it's the TV's fault--the fault lies in the person watching. In the end, it's nothing a competent parent can't handle.
My response was simply to say that those who take it too far, or bring satanism into D&D are incredibly rare (if any), and when it happens its not the fault of the game but rather the "users". Those who play (or have played like I have) understand this, and those who don't, but still belive that D&D itself is harmful and satanic are therefore a bit "naive", in my honest opinion. They speak critically without firsthand knowledge.
Oct 14, 2008 at 1:12 p.m.
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I spend too much time on Digg and /.
Oct 14, 2008 at 1:09 p.m.
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hastyhobbit...how can you agree with me on both points and then turn around and call me naive? I agree that most people can paly, but then there are those that take it too far...as you said. I never allowed my kids to play that or the OUIJA board, why open yourself up?
Oct 14, 2008 at 10:49 a.m.
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I'm a huge Face-booker. I spend hours on Facebook, hours ... pathetic I know!
Oct 14, 2008 at 10:15 a.m.
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The people that I know that play D&D are some of the smartest people I've ever met. These are huge history buffs and it's amazing to see how a family can become very close. My kids will grow up playing and hopefully they'll teach their kids. Call us geeky if you like, we don't mind ;)
Oct 14, 2008 at 10:13 a.m.
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Hey - you could have wasted your time on facebook like I do! Here's to face to face interaction!
Oct 14, 2008 at 9:22 a.m.
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upnorthwi--
I agree with you that D&D can take over lives, but no more than online gaming or other such diversions. The game is what you make of it. As for your comment regarding satanic content--yes it can have satanic overtones, but ONLY IF the players bring that element into the game themselves. Suggesting that D&D itself is satanic or harmful is simply naive. The vast (and I mean very vast) majority of people who play the game (which obviously based on a comment like this--you are not) never delve into this area.
For anyone reasonably well adjusted and well parented--D&D is perfectly harmless. I'd rather have my teenager at a friend's house playing D&D than out partying and boozing.
Please don't give D&D a bad rap. There are many more serious issues in society than this. D&D is good clean fun 99.9% of the time.
Oct 14, 2008 at 8:30 a.m.
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a lot of people play that game, the only problem is that some REALLY get into it so much that it actually takes over their lives. I say wow too , but only because it can have satanic things behind it also.
Oct 14, 2008 at 8:17 a.m.
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and i thought i was a dork;) lol
Oct 14, 2008 at 7:37 a.m.
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People still play that game? On a non-digital gaming surface? Using dice instead of a pseudo random number generation algorithm? All I can say is WoW! (World of Warcraft).
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