Help for 'Surviving the Holidays'

By STEVE KNOX   Monday, December 10, 2012 - 6:24 a.m.

Depending on the statistics you read, half or more of Americans are divorced. Lawyers are quick to help take care of the initial 'fire' but the aftermath can sometimes be overwhelming...especially this time of year. Enter the DivorceCare program that is offered throughout U.S. communities. Locally, DivorceCare is lead every Thursday at New Life Assembly of God.

DivorceCare groups are a place where you don't need to have it all together and you'll meet people who know the place you're currently in. It's tough enough getting through the process, but if you're struggling during the holiday season it can be overwhelming.

If this is you or you know someone in this position, DivorceCare is offering a special session titled, 'Surviving the Holidays' on Thursday, December 13 from 6:30-8:30pm at New Life Assembly of God at the corner of N. Wright Road and Hwy. 14 (the fireworks church).

The session will include a short video featuring reflections of those who have effectively made it through this season while dealing with heartache and loss. Afterwards, there will be a discussion to share or listen...whatever you feel comfortable with. Finally, you'll receive daily devotions to help you find strength, encouragement and helpful ideas to help you 'Survive the Holidays'.

This special event is free of charge and refreshments will be provided. Don't go through the holiday season thinking you're alone. If you're struggling you have a safe place in DivorceCare. If you have questions, feel free to call the church office at 608-756-4175.

Steve Knox was born, raised and landed back in Janesville. He encourages you to participate as he writes on Janesville and beyond as this Generation X guy supports his Janesville mission, global vision. Steve is a community blogger and is not a part of The Gazette staff. His opinion is not necessarily that of the The Gazette staff or management.

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vnvet7071
Dec 11, 2012 at 10:49 a.m.
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Boy, time to change the channel on this box !

frogger
Dec 11, 2012 at 8:49 a.m.
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Will they say marriage is work. Don't give up for stupid crap. Oh to late for that.

JustStoppingBy
Dec 10, 2012 at 3:05 p.m.
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No, you have to be Cher...or maybe we could do a Vicki Lawrence/Carol Burnett Mama's Family thing. Thoughts?

hg
Dec 10, 2012 at 2:57 p.m.
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Okay, I don't know if you are M/F but I am playing Sonny. I don't do drag.

JustStoppingBy
Dec 10, 2012 at 1:55 p.m.
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hg, maybe we can start a comedy routine for the divorced people! I'm thinking we should go with a Sonny and Cher type act. Happy Holidays, everyone!

hg
Dec 10, 2012 at 1:41 p.m.
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li713, you are right! So JustStopingBy did not repeat the same thing twice. I guess I have to blame my bifocals again for missing that. JSB, you have been saved and popularity is once again bestowed upon you. Glorious day for you. Congrats. Are we having fun yet? What was the original subject? Oh yes, divorced person support for the Holidays. Very good program.
(Okay, do not click twice)

li713
Dec 10, 2012 at 12:39 p.m.
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hg....look closely. The two posts you mentioned are not exactly the same.

hg
Dec 10, 2012 at 12:19 p.m.
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Aaaah, now I see how that happened. :)

hg
Dec 10, 2012 at 12:18 p.m.
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I was wondering if you would catch that. :). By the way, I talk slow so nevertheless is three words to me. Kind of like you're adding a southern drawl to the word awkward. Are we done now? Did you have fun? Me too. Bye.

hg
Dec 10, 2012 at 12:18 p.m.
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I was wondering if you would catch that. :). By the way, I talk slow so nevertheless is three words to me. Kind of like you're adding a southern drawl to the word awkward. Are we done now? Did you have fun? Me too. Bye.

JustStoppingBy
Dec 10, 2012 at noon
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You mean "you're". Also, "nevertheless" is one word. Too bad your bifocals don't help with spelling. Maybe you should add a new pair to your list for Santa.

hg
Dec 10, 2012 at 11:54 a.m.
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Your getting better. You only said that once. But never the less, I am glad that it really was you. These new bi-focals you know, I thought maybe I was seeing twice.

JustStoppingBy
Dec 10, 2012 at 11:39 a.m.
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yes

hg
Dec 10, 2012 at 10:59 a.m.
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JustStoppingby, do you normally repeat everything you say?

JustStoppingBy
Dec 10, 2012 at 9:20 a.m.
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what if both people from a divorced couple show up to this meeting now? Awkwaaaaaard.

JustStoppingBy
Dec 10, 2012 at 9:20 a.m.
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what is both people from a divorced couple show up to this meeting now? Awkwaaaaaard.

gazettefan
Dec 10, 2012 at 8:13 a.m.
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Attributing importance to the ideology that has a blood sacrifice as its basis contributes, at least in part, to the origin of the problem.

The need for more faith reveals the failure of faith.

ImJustSayin
Dec 10, 2012 at 7:56 a.m.
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Taking advantage to people in distressed emotional states is what the church does best.

brwe
Dec 10, 2012 at 7:46 a.m.
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Thanks, Steve. I'm not divorced, but I appreciate this much-needed service being offered & your publicizing the fact.

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