The kids in my neighborhood

By STEVE KNOX   Friday, May 4, 2012 - 6:52 a.m.

I've made the decision to finally end this blog sometime in June. Before I do I want to make sure I call out people that have been a huge part of my life. I've written about growing up on Beacon Hill Drive a few times before but one thing I didn't write about is the respect that I had - and still have - for the people I grew up with in the greatest neighborhood a kid could ever ask for. That neighborhood was right here in Janesville.

The mix of families in our neighborhood was really special. Professions were all over the board as you walked down the street. A salesman for a petroleum company, a firefighter, police officer, county deputy, dairy company owner, pilot, teachers, home builder and factory workers. It was not your stereotypical 'Janesville' neighborhood. One by one neighbors started to move but most of the families stayed in touch. Kids in the neighborhood were always around each other because we still went to school together. Weekend trips to the lake or cabin always included one or more friends from home. A trip to the Dells wouldn't be the same without a few neighbor kids coming along for the ride.

If the kids were to repopulate Beacon Hill Drive for just a few days the mix of our families and professions would be all over the board…just like it was over 30 years ago. Today, the original kids from Beacon Hill Drive are now electricians, a Army Ranger turned defense contractor, a procurement professional, a home builder, a firefighter, a lawyer, a chiropractor, a Hollywood film editor, a ER nurse, a pipe fitter, a internet radio startup, and a Air Force pilot. Some of the group still lives in Janesville (you can get an adjustment from the chiropractor) while others are editing in Hollywood, fighting fires in Georgia and trying cases in Kansas.

The best thing about our group of neighbors is how the parents stayed connected and how Facebook allows the kids to stay connected even though some of us are now thousands of miles away. I still look up to the parents and often seek out advice. It's easy through email and Facebook. I also admire and respect my peers from Beacon Hill Drive. They now have wonderful families with a neat group of kids.

Sadly, a few in the neighborhood are no longer with us. Shirley, one of the Mom's in the neighborhood and Craig, one of the kids have passed away in the last few years. That hurts. As a kid sometimes you think we'll live forever.

Once you buy or build a home you always hope for a good group of neighbors. My parents hit the jackpot when they landed on the street I grew up on. It was a special place and, as you've read, I have very fond memories of growing up in Janesville.

Share some of the memories of growing up on your block in Janesville...or wherever you grew up.

Steve Knox was born, raised and landed back in Janesville. He encourages you to participate as he writes on Janesville and beyond as this Generation X guy supports his Janesville mission, global vision. Steve is a community blogger and is not a part of The Gazette staff. His opinion is not necessarily that of the The Gazette staff or management.

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Geno57
May 7, 2012 at 12:37 a.m.
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I grew up in the 60s on the SW side of Chicago. Believe it or not ... until 1968, we rarely locked our doors unless we were going away for more than a few hours. This was about three miles due east of the north end of Midway Airport.

Third_Eye
May 6, 2012 at 11:22 a.m.
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Sigma40 be careful what you wish for.
After you exhuast your half dozen or so big ideas finding a new angle on an existing subject or subjects that are unique becomes a grind.
I know, I started a blog in 2007 and was on fire for a while, posting some pent up material. Then it became work. Much of my writing was just part of the blogosphere.
My insights on the auto industry during the government bail out did get reprinted on larger sites, which stands as my biggest accomplishment for all the work.
Though my blog still exists, the hosting site has fallen far behind in the blog site race and I seldom add to it now.

Third_Eye
May 6, 2012 at 9:47 a.m.
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I grew up in the 4th ward in the mid 50's. At the time the 4th ward population was mostly GM workers with large families. My memories revolve around 4th ward park. In those days college students were assigned to parks and provided activities for kids all day (My mom had lots of pot holders).
If a couple of guys went down to 4th ward park with a bat and a ball and played catch within an hour or so enough kids would join them for a pick up game.
I also remember friends who's parents moved to the new neighborhoods forming in the area that would later house the Janesville Mall. When my parents went to visit them I was always amazed by the lack of green grass and trees.
Before they chopped those large 4th ward houses into apartments it was a great place to be a kid because there were lots of other kids.

PositiveJanesville
May 6, 2012 at 6:26 a.m.
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I hear some people trash Janesville but it is largely unfounded. Among our peer cities we are the lowest in property taxes, we have a dedicated city staff in all areas, we do more with less than any city around, and, it is still a great place to live. Low crime rates, great pride in taking care of things, and we're growing. I am a lifer because of the ties that bind, the memories, and the familiar paths.

Sigma40
May 5, 2012 at 1:10 p.m.
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How does one get a blog at the gazette?

saxcat70
May 5, 2012 at 8:18 a.m.
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I grew up in the country. Capron Illinois. My "neighborhood" was about 9 square miles. I would ride my bike or my pony Cannonball wherever I needed to go. My varied interests accumulated alot of friends over those years. As I grow older I realize that some were good friends, and some were friends of convenience. We would play sports, go fishing, play video games (atari or Intellivision back then), just like kids today. Whenever we got a couple bucks, we would go to Johhny's fountain shop, downtown Capron (pop. 650 back then). It was a true old school fountain shop. No soft serve, everything from scratch. I never heard once of any kids toting guns, or killing anyone, or much violence at all. That feeling of safety is my fondest memory. The house door was never locked and the keys were always left in the car.

Employed1
May 4, 2012 at 8:23 p.m.
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I couldn't agree with you more! I also
grew up on Beacon Hill Drive and loved it! It never seemed to be a problem that we didn't have sidewalks and I always felt safe. We were truly blessed:)

snirt
May 4, 2012 at 7:53 p.m.
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Grew up on Milton avenue in the fifties. Attended Adams school. Played with kids around that area. It has been said before, but it"s true. That it was a kinder, gentler time. Haven't been back in years. I am reminded of the last line of the old TV series "Wonder Years." "After all these years, I still look back with wonder."

frogger
May 4, 2012 at 5:12 p.m.
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kidlets- that was my point. There is bad stuff all over. People use that as an example "4th ward, south side, look west. They all have good spots and east west all have bad too.
Sorry I didn't clarify well.

frogger
May 4, 2012 at 5:10 p.m.
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steveknox
May 4, 2012 at 10:59 a.m.
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Unintended. It was supposed to be an email not comment.
First time on here.
SEND message- pretty simple
sure but maybe it is hannnah.

frogger
May 4, 2012 at 5:06 p.m.
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yea sweet guy huh-

smsebastian
May 4, 2012 at 4:37 p.m.
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I too, owned a home on the South side until I lost it to foreclosure, but there was a real sense of neighborhood there. A great experience that I miss. In the 12 years I lived in Janesville, I lived everywhere but the westside. It was at times bittersweet but I always felt I had good neighbors: Cotton Mills, Kennsington St, Margate Drive, Conde Street. Carosell Lane was probably the worst and that was my first place in Janesville, but I stayed. I will always be greatful to RK Smith Realty for finding me some great places to rent until I could buy a house. I live in Walworth County now, which is very different, and nice in it's own way, but I've not met a single neighbor....

kidlets2
May 4, 2012 at 12:12 p.m.
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So frogger what is wrong with the south side??? I live on the south side in a very nice neighborhood with nice neighbors and nice kids. The south side is not bad. No matter if you live on the east, west, north or south side of Janesville there are problems in each area.

steveknox
May 4, 2012 at 10:59 a.m.
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Unintended. It was supposed to be an email not comment.

MyBlueEquinox
May 4, 2012 at 10:20 a.m.
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Nose4It
May 4, 2012 at 10:06 a.m.
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I have fond memories of growing up on a farm west of Janesville. We didn’t have much for entertainment, so we made our own fun. Now I live on the east side of Janesville in a neighborhood of retired folks, or at least empty nesters for the most part. Since the rash of foreclosures, we now have empty residences and drug houses. The people living in the house behind me have been busted at least twice since last fall for operating a drug house, but they are still there and not in jail. People also speed down our street in excess of 50 MPH, but the police say they can do nothing about it unless they catch them on radar. Fat chance! If there were any kids growing up on this street, I doubt they would have many fond memories.

tthompson
May 4, 2012 at 10:03 a.m.
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I thought maybe you were notifying readers that I was in your area and you just missed the ':)

steveknox
May 4, 2012 at 9:39 a.m.
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love2bmama
May 4, 2012 at 9:27 a.m.
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We always had lots of fun in our Eastside neighborhood. There were always kids to play with, a park to ride our bikes to, and imaginary games to play. We live in a nice neighborhood now, but mostly near retired people. They adore my kids, but I wish there were more young families in the area.

karmelko
May 4, 2012 at 9:08 a.m.
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I grew up in the 4th Ward. My youngest brother still lives in the family home. Although, 2 of my brothers and I have moved from Janesville, it'll always be home. I talk to my youngest brother every week. When we talk, the "kids" in the neighborhood are always mentioned. They are still in our lives. Just like old times, when my brother (it used to be my mom) bakes cookies, he calls the "kids" (all in their 50's and 60's now) and they come over for cookies and milk, and they sometimes bring the milk. I know it sounds corny, but we did have a "Leave It to Beaver" existence and some of the folks in Janesville have kept part of that alive.

My kids (we moved away in 1977) still refer to Janesville (and our cabin "Up North") as home. Everytime my son visits my brother (he and his family live in Texas now), he calls me the minute he gets to the house to tell me he's "home".

This is part of the reason I'm trying to sell my house in the Inland Northwest so I can move back to Janesville (something I thought I'd never do). The truth of the matter is that the grass is not always greener somewhere else --- and there is no place like home and family.

I'll miss your blogs Steve - they've always been a touch of home to me.

frogger
May 4, 2012 at 8:43 a.m.
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June- last year, this year or next year. Seems I have heard these words before.
It sure is different now- I could buy crack a tthe apartment behind me pretty sure. If I got in trouble though jail isn't far away and neither is the lawyers office. Don't forget the white trash dropping the f bomb word after word. Seems it would take longer to tell somebody what you want them to know with so many f's in the sentences!! Nope I am not 4th ward either or South side. Guess the theft of the big pumpkin will aways be around though.
Other than that my neighborhood seems nice.
I agree more rentals now vs then but as a kid maybe we just didn't know who was renting. As a kid we didn't care.

Of course you lived in a perfect neighborhood when you were a kid.

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