The victim of this crime is my aunt. To the few in here arguing back and fourth and making wise cracks, please understand that her children come on here to read this. Please find somewhere else to make your ignorant comments. To others, thank you for your wishes and prayers.

localboy1968-Go crawl back under the rock you came from. Not just for this post but all of your other asinine posts as well.

latinmami2: If when trying to make a point about other posts put " " around the sentence that is NOT yours. This helps your ramblings make more sense.

I'm tired of this crap everyone is dishing out about beating each other up. How many of you have been hitting another HUMAN regardless of race, gender, etc? Get over yourselves!

"why are all the major news stories around here from the trailer parks? hmmm."

Get ur nose out of the air...

---sorry, not even close

why are all the major news stories around here from the trailer parks? hmmm.

melstew41 - let me paint a scenerio for you. If you are a woman and you come at me and take a swing or smash a bottle over my (situations not becoming of a woman)head, or in the heat of an argument smack me, be prepared to get it in return. I am not talking about a beating, just a return "hit". That is no different than if the same situation was between 2 men since now woman are "equal". If you are in a situation where you are physical with a man, you really are not a woman, so the term never hit a woman no longer applies, plus you are equal to a man. I think I have done enough explaining my opinion. Take it for what you want.

Melstew...Talk about taking a comment out of context. In no way was that what localboy was trying to say.

so,what position would that be?maybe women should just do as theyre told,then men wouldnt have to hit them.omg!what a ridiculous statement.lol

However, if you are a REAL woman, you will act like one and not get yourself in a position to be hit by a man.
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I was agreeing with you all the way up to here, yes there are some woman who will step up to a man and then things go down hill from there, but there are some men who are violent for no reason at all. So I guess depending on the situation this comment might fit maybe

momof5 - a little bit of both (he,he,he). Some of my comments were in regard to others saying you should never "hit" a woman. Never once did I condone "beating" a woman as others have ran with. My point is also grabbed by others. If you are a woman and you are going to step up and take on a man, be prepared to take it back as the "you should NEVER hit a woman" is no longer "NEVER" due to equal rights. Where is the saying "you should NEVER hit a man"? If man and woman are equal be prepared to get treated like a man if needed. However, if you are a REAL woman, you will act like one and not get yourself in a position to be hit by a man. This case is a beating which is entirely different and uncalled for. My comments were in response to others who think that a woman should NEVER be hit. Not the case anymore. In self defense be ready to get smacked! (I don't care who you are).

ihavealife wrote: "The man(husband)in my life could hit me !!! I know where he sleeps !!!!"

Yeah...and I know where "it counts" too! haha (and I also carry an ample supply of Vaseline and nailpolish)

Does anyone know how this woman is doing? DO police have any leads? Could it be an estranged man in her life? I'm surprised there hasn't been any updates :(

gina51 wrote: Women burned their bras so they could draw attention to equal rights not the right to be hit.

I thought it was because they were so darn uncomfortable!

Guys guys guys....localboy is baiting you all. He did it back when the wife "allegedly" stabbed her husband in the shower. He had me all riled up.

Remember? Deception? Make-up, high heel shoes, lies, padded bras, breast augmentation and the list goes on and on.

Search "Jaymie Pergande" and I'm sure you'll find the article.

localboy: why aren't you playing nice, again? Are you bored? lol :) Boy was that a "fun" thread! lol

really the bottom line is no one should be putting their hands on anyone regardless of the gender. People in relationships these days seem to be so quick to resort to violence when they have issues. This needs to stop, people need to talk out their problems not beat them out of each other. The scary thing is this is what children these days are learning from parents to beat each other, violence in homes and schools in my opinion is horrible and scary.

Just to clarify...I am not talking about this incident. I am talking in general terms. I am also not talking about beating someone to death. I am talking very strictly one slap for one slap.
What happened to Sandy is an absolite tragedy. It was not deserved nor could it be justified.

in my opinion~~I agree. But, if she hit him first that does not give him the right to beat her like he did. If the gender role in the story was reversed, I would say the same.

localboy~~ Give me a break~~even if it was self defense (which I'm not saying it was or wasn't because I have no idea of what happened) then all he had to do was restrain her or immobolize her~~not beat her until she was in critical condition. Don't use the self defense crap here~~that's obviously NOT what happened in this case. Just because someone hits you does not give you the right to beat them to death~~it gives you the right to defend yourself until you can get away safely and call the police.

Not to put words into his mouth but what I think localboy is trying to say is that...If a woman wants to step up like a man, she better be prepared to go down like one. There are way too many woman that beat on their mates and then they whine cuz' he finally hit her back. If a woman slaps her man, he can slap her back. If she hits him, he can hit her back. We teach our woman to defend themselves. Why not our men?

This is very sad I know this woman and her family! She is a wonderful woman and I dont know anybody that would ever want to hurt her! She did anything and everything for anybody! Wat an awful mothers day for her and her family!!I hope and pray that she comes out of this and can tell us who did this! The bastard deserves to rot in hell!!! Get well soon Sandy every1s praying for you!!!

locoboy...did you not write " Women gave up their right to not be hit when they burned their bras and demanded equal rights?" Is that your post? I am not misreading it. It's what you wrote. Don't try and blame your misogyny on the reader. Real men don't hit women. Period.

http://www.madison.com/tct/news/police/4...

http://www.madison.com/tct/news/police/4...

a little bit more info.

localboy,youre right as women we will read between the lines,when it comes to women being beat up.as a woman and a past victim of domestic violence thats the first thing i did,was read your post that you condone hitting women.i will agree with the statement if you hit me, youre going to get hit back.my husband would strongly disagree with striking a woman under any circumstances,even if it meant his life,which i hope he would not be that stupid.its always easier to walk away, but most people dont.with all the awful things that have been happening to women in this county alone lately,your comment struck a nerve with myself and probably alot of other woman who are victims of domestic violence,my intent was not to label you, and i do apologize for that,but your post should have been worded a little different considering the condition that this woman is in,and yes it could have been another woman who did this to this poor woman.but highly unlikely,men who do this will continue because they get away with it.this act will be a felony and hopefull this person,male or female will go to prison along time for this.

It is funny how you posters only read what you want to in my post. Read it carefully AGAIN. Nobody "deserves" to be hit, struck, or physically abused. However, in self defense, I don't care what your sex is since woman are considered "equal" to a man. It is then a fair fight.

so i take it local boy hits women.no one has the right to put their hands on anyone even if they deserve it. the only time one should strike another is in self defense,and by the way the anser to one of the comments above.why does it have to be a man?how often do you read in the paper,"local man beat up by wife?"maybe if you did, their would be fewer women getting their heads knocked in,and their teeth knocked out. well maybe they have it coming as local boy says.i got to ask you localboy what would a woman have to do to have it coming?just curious.my prayers and thoughts are with this woman, and wishing her a full recovery.

"Women gave up their right to "not be hit" when they burned their bras and demanded equal treatment."

So because women demanded equal treatment its OK to hit them? Or because they burned their bras?
Seriously I thought we were moving out of the stone age. But then again the shelters are full.

Localboy- bad choice of wording..But as a woman, I am gonna agree with you to a certain extent..If I hit any other person man/woman- I fully expect to get hit back!

Localboy Attitudes like yours are the reason that we need a women's shelter in this town. Women burned their bras so they could draw attention to equal rights not the right to be hit. Your misogyny is shining through and through. It sounds like you don't think women are equal.
Fire away indeed. Women never gave up the right to be hit as they never had it in the first place. What ignorance. Any man that hits a women is NOT a man.

So I'm reading in the paper this morning that the sheriff says we're all safe. But he has no idea who did this. You can't have it both ways, sheriff.

Local boy, I chuckled for a second but, in reality, if someone beats, hits or abuses a woman in my presence, they will be "stopped". There is no reason to beat a women.

First off, you don't "beat" a woman. It isn't a fair fight. As for hitting, if she has it coming, fire away. Women gave up their right to "not be hit" when they burned their bra's and demanded equal treatment. If you want to be equal to a man, you get hit like a man if you deserve it (e.g. self defense). You can't be treated "special" if you want to be equal.

good question peacegirl. can a woman hit a woman?? or does NEVER still apply??;)

uprr, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a trailer park. you get insensitive people everywhere. probably at your house with your comment.

Thats right tugger....that was back in the day when all of us kids had respect for all people. Those days are long gone. Just like this saying "have a good one" have a good what exactly is what I reply with when I hear that. Have we all gotten so lazy that we cannot say "have a great day", "hope you have a good afternoon", anything but "have a good one". Dear Orfordville lady, Hope you are doing better every minute that goes by! God Bless

How sad! I hope things improve for her. To her family and friends, she and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Who said it was a man?

I remember the same thing being said by my dad. I think it was something said to young men at the time. Dont be so critical! When I was growing up women were treated with respect and fathers always tried to instill that in their sons.

Rule number 1: You never hit.

wesgonsin: So hitting people OTHER than women is acceptable? That saying is ridiculous and ignorant.

Dead on there, wesgonsin...I remember my husband coming down really hard on his son, for punching his older sister, when the boy was just 5 years old. That was exactly what he was upset about... You NEVER strike a girl!
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How sad this was on Mother's Day. She is at least someone's daughter and possibly has children of her own.
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Absolutely SICK!!!

Yeah. Happy Mother's Day at the trailer park.

Thoughts and Prayers to this woman and her family. I hope who ever is responsible for this is found and punished to the fullest extent. Whats this world coming to. I'm going to start carring my gun again!!!

I hope she pulls through.
Meanwhile, whoever did this to the poor woman remains at large, by the sounds of it.
RULE NUMBER ONE: YOU NEVER HIT A WOMAN!

This is so awful. Who would do this!!

That is awful. My thoughts and prays are with her and her family. I hope they get who ever did this and lock them away for good.