How can students become more respectful?

By GREG PECK ( Contact )   Tuesday, June 19, 2012 - 2:54 p.m.

Students in the Janesville School District could play nicer together. That is evident after the district revealed results of two surveys of student satisfaction. The first-ever surveys, administered in December and January, separately polled kids in pre-kindergarten through fifth grade and those in grades 6-12. One of the lowest-scoring questions was: “Kids are nice to each other at my school.”

While more than 80 percent of students agreed with that statement, other questions got much higher marks. Also, on a scale of 1 to 4, responses among older students averaged 2.57 to this statement: “Students at this school respect other students who are different than they are.”

No one should deny that bullying can be a problem in Janesville as well as in all schools.

What should we expect staffers and administrators to do to improve these scores? What role can parents play?

One commenter in Sunday’s Gazette Sound Off feature suggested that given the district’s financial pinch, the surveys seemed like a waste of money. Do you agree?

We’ll share our perspectives in our editorial Wednesday.

Greg Peck can be reached at (608) 755-8278 or gpeck@gazettextra.com. Or follow him on Twitter or Facebook

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studs
Jun 22, 2012 at 9:36 p.m.
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"Scores"?! There's your problem right there. These are not scores, but an unscientific survey. How many people even answered? Could it be that the ones who answer are most likely disgruntled? Education needs to be focused less on "satisfaction" defined in the most narrow terms.

tamrlu
Jun 21, 2012 at 5:34 p.m.
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TTT- It's more the parents making their opinions about the teachers, the neighbors, the politicians, etc. known to their entire household in their own little way. It's like little kids throwing sand at each other and expecting the observers to not get sand on them to take with them wherever they go. There is a poem about Children Learn What They Live. Never more appropriate than in today's society.

tamrlu
Jun 21, 2012 at 7:02 a.m.
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Oh, and I wasn't on any kind of welfare. Worked full time at 50+ hours a week.

tamrlu
Jun 21, 2012 at 6:53 a.m.
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As a formerly single parent I take offense. My children were/have been/are given discipline as it was needed. I had firm guidelines in place for them (varied with their ages of course) and made sure that they had and used their manners, treated their elders with respect, etc. My children are not saints, they were and are children. When you get a "thank you" from your child for preparing them to be on their own, and people telling you what great kids you have, you have done your job as a parent.

Sigma40
Jun 20, 2012 at 10:49 p.m.
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Single parents have nothing to do with it. A lot of families that have 2 parents have one working all the time. My father worked long hard hours and wasnt around much. My grandfather did the same. It all comes down to discipline....its obsolete.

lovemycountry
Jun 20, 2012 at 6:54 p.m.
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Single parent welfare has increased single parent families from 8% in the '50's to 50% today. Research shows children raised in single parent families, generally, have more behavioral problems.

Sigma40
Jun 20, 2012 at 6:21 p.m.
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Kids can do whatever they want today because there are no consequences. 20 years ago we were respectful only because if the teacher called home about behavior our butts would get whipped. Well thats now illegal so kids can do what they want. Would you expect anything less?
How stupid is society when they ban spanking and now are bewildered that students have no respect? Are people really that stupid? duh.

dtb
Jun 20, 2012 at 11:23 a.m.
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While I agree that money must be spent wisely in our schools, if you want bright young people (the "best and brightest" as it were) to choose education as a profession, the way to NOT do that is by cutting salaries and benefits and slashing school funding.

bigrigger
Jun 20, 2012 at 11:04 a.m.
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Back in the early 80's when I graduated, we as students respected our teachers, parents, our elders! If you were told to do something, you did it, no questions, no attitude. I witnessed many a teacher/principal haul kids to the office by the scruff of the neck/shirt collar (yes myself included) for disrespecting or causing a problem in class. Detentions or suspension meant something back then. But not as much as what was going to happen, when I got home! Too many parents are sue happy, want to be there child’s best friend, or cant believe there little darling would do such things! Its time parents wake up and be parents, and allow there children to face the consequences. Yes there will be that one official who oversteps the boundaries. As a parent now, if my kid was grabbed by a teacher or official, my first question would be, what did you do! Not what’s the lawyers number!

mgcarguy
Jun 20, 2012 at 10:26 a.m.
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This is a problem that has no answer or solution. There will always be nice people and people who are not nice. There are a lot of people who are good that came from bad parents and a lot of bad folks who came from good parents. People are just people. Those who are good can just act as examples to others. Schools help prepare children for adulthood and there is just as many bullies and bad folks in the work place as there are in school.

garyprimer
Jun 20, 2012 at 9:09 a.m.
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Too many parents want to be their kids' best friends
and are reluctant to side with the schools
for fear of being disliked by their children.

mteg
Jun 20, 2012 at 8:38 a.m.
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Reinstate corporal punsihment

JoyM
Jun 20, 2012 at 8:15 a.m.
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Maybe when a significant percentage of parents stop taking their nasty kid's side and make it clear that if there is a call from the office, the kid is going to wish he could sleep in the office because home life isn't going to be too happy for a while.

vnvet7071
Jun 20, 2012 at 7:43 a.m.
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If that were the case Sigma, you should take a pay cut.

Sigma40
Jun 20, 2012 at 6:59 a.m.
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dtb - Why do schools need so much funds? Do you think pouring money on education makes it better? Perhaps if I or you were a really crappy employee, do you think our employer is going to throw money at us to make us better? HAHA! While that is some peoples logic it is surely no where near reality.

briguy95
Jun 19, 2012 at 11:31 p.m.
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what can we expect staffers and administrators to do in order to improve the scores? Really? Just read the comments under any article in the gazette and look at how the "adults" act toward one another. How in the world can we expect the students to be any different when their parents are on here bickering day in and day out?

armancay
Jun 19, 2012 at 11:09 p.m.
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When I read all the name calling on here I'm not surprised kids are not nicer to each other.

dtb
Jun 19, 2012 at 10:17 p.m.
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MR, read a little deeper: "School spokesperson Gabe Ross told News 10 that who gets laid off is mandated by state law".

Not really a union issue. The bigger issue is why was $143 million cut from the school budget? And why aren't we trying to find better ways to fund our schools?

Midnight_Ride
Jun 19, 2012 at 8:19 p.m.
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When adults offer a better example. The recall process opened a lot of eyes as to why the unions need to be removed from our education system.

http://capoliticalnews.com/2012/06/17/un...

Teach of the year fired under union contract.

Sigma40
Jun 19, 2012 at 8:11 p.m.
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Exactly frogger. One must first be respected to know what it is in order to follow. Janesville thinks its 1950 still with student etiquette.

frogger
Jun 19, 2012 at 5:31 p.m.
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When adults start to become more respectful!

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